When we are in our growing age like after 8-12 yrs age of our lives, we start observing things around us; things like people behaviors, ups and downs in relationships, bonds understandings, financial situations and stabilities, goods and bads etc. In the same age, our personality is developing inside each and every one of us.
This is the most Basic phase or age of anyone's life, the guidance we get in this age and how we evolve completely as a person is very important. I have already discussed about character building in one of my previous blogs. Personality development involves CB and along with it, it also develops our thoughts and perspectives behind things or circumstances.
Moreover (unfortunately) most of the time, personalities break down in the same age and this is astonishingly high in ratio these days just because we lack guidance which parents used to give to their children before.
We think that if he/she is a child, he/she doesn't understand and perceive what we talk about, how we behave and how our actions are affecting him/her. But it isn't like what it seems to be. Everything we do, whatever we speak, every single bit of us teaching our children the way of life. They start thinking in this age that they can handle things in their lives just the way their parents did. They don't think whether it was a good way or a bad one. It is enough for them that they find out ways to tackle their problems no matter what results come out and that's where the personality disorders born.
Sometimes when parents fight with, shout on, beat each other or smash down things then the worst thing which happens is the personality breakdown or disorder in their children. We as a parents should always keep this in our minds that what so ever is going on affects our kids.
The main thing that is need to be done is Guidance. Without any doubt, we all are learning at every step of our lives and we need guidance of our elders at every phase because they experienced every thing we are experiencing and only they can tell us tricks to get rid of all problematic thoughts and the way to look into our lives and mess created.
When kids are growing, they need guidance on very small things even and they seek guidance from their parents usually. At that age with guidance if we give them freedom of speech and actions then it enhances their qualities. Through guidance about what should and shouldn't be done, we can build confidence in a person that he can resolve his life issues.
We may all have a lot of examples of personality disorders in our surroundings. We usually take pity on them but what if our children come out like them as well just because of our little carelessness towards them. Can we bear that pain of not making our children a proud, courageous, mature and confident citizen. Shouldn't we spend time on guiding them through all think and thin. So when our kid all grown up, he/she feel himself/herself a happy, satisfied and a complete person inside out.
Henceforth, we should stand beside our kids and our loved ones to guide them and support them on every single way of their lives.
Happy Reading!
This is the most Basic phase or age of anyone's life, the guidance we get in this age and how we evolve completely as a person is very important. I have already discussed about character building in one of my previous blogs. Personality development involves CB and along with it, it also develops our thoughts and perspectives behind things or circumstances.
Moreover (unfortunately) most of the time, personalities break down in the same age and this is astonishingly high in ratio these days just because we lack guidance which parents used to give to their children before.
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Sometimes when parents fight with, shout on, beat each other or smash down things then the worst thing which happens is the personality breakdown or disorder in their children. We as a parents should always keep this in our minds that what so ever is going on affects our kids.
The main thing that is need to be done is Guidance. Without any doubt, we all are learning at every step of our lives and we need guidance of our elders at every phase because they experienced every thing we are experiencing and only they can tell us tricks to get rid of all problematic thoughts and the way to look into our lives and mess created.
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| image from google.com |
We may all have a lot of examples of personality disorders in our surroundings. We usually take pity on them but what if our children come out like them as well just because of our little carelessness towards them. Can we bear that pain of not making our children a proud, courageous, mature and confident citizen. Shouldn't we spend time on guiding them through all think and thin. So when our kid all grown up, he/she feel himself/herself a happy, satisfied and a complete person inside out.
Henceforth, we should stand beside our kids and our loved ones to guide them and support them on every single way of their lives.
Happy Reading!