We face random situations in our lifetime, some of them are happy ones while others sadden us, but the best thing about time is it passes. No matter how long the bad time is, in the end, a good time always replaces it. So, life never remains the same for everyone, it's like a see-saw swing between a good and bad time. Right?
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Read below to know about My healing journey:
My Life Was A Roller Coaster Ride
I never had an ideal life. Well, there are still some memories which bring a smile on my face. Yet, I never complained about the adverse past at all. As it is quoted:
“Learn from mistakes of your past, and mend yourself, so it won’t last” – Heal With Words
Learning is all that matters the most and you can't neglect the fact that your life-long decisions and happenings are based on it.
Anyhow, if you are the person who had the desired living, then you are amazing and blessed. And, you can skip reading.
But, if you are doubtful, then you must answer this question and proceed onwards:
Can you call your life perfect? I know, the reply would be A Big No. Nobody can. I never had.
A few years ago, I faced some severe mishaps which turned out to be the worst experience of my life, and I don’t know from where a divine force, an unseen power helped me to get through it and I stood back. However, there a few scenarios that make you cry for the rest of your life. But, luckily it wasn’t the case for me.
Then again, sometimes even a little piece of conversation put you in deep thought and urge you to write.
The same happened to me recently, when my mother asked me to join a group of people on social media who might have faced the circumstances like me, to get healed. To which I replied, I don't have to, when I can find peace and healing power from nowhere but ALLAH. Yes, ALLAH ALMIGHTY paved ways for me. That’s why today I am talking about this here.
Let’s check amazing tips to heal yourself below (that literally helped me, too).
10 Outstanding Tips To Heal Yourself
Check the following traits, that if you adopt, you would see the major difference in you:
Get Closer To ALLAH
Always and All ways, pray to your God and discuss every single thing with Him. He is the one, who can give you happiness and fill your heart with peace. Moreover, when you start praying to ALLAH for everything, the modesty, and contentment would become part of your life. Hence, making your bond with Him stronger.
Stay Busy And Stay Ease
Once I heard a proverb, “Empty mind is the home of a demon.” Somehow, it is right as you might have noticed that when you are doing nothing, you are thinking negative. Isn’t it? Well, that’s why I keep myself busy every time. The more I work, the easier my life has become.
Find Happiness In Little Things
Sometimes, little things do wonder. Observing everything and then finding bliss in them is truly a blessed feeling. Yes, it’s not rocket science. Nevertheless, just a smile on your mother’s face can do the chore. Also, you can find happiness in your little work-related achievements. In short, enjoy life to its fullest just like me.
Always Pay Gratitude
“Thank You,” just two words that hold the whole universe in verbal meanings. So, whenever anyone does well to you, pay gratitude to them. You may never know how your few words are touching them. Eventually, people who know me, are not very much happy with this habit of mine. Lol! Still, I can't help it.
Never Lose Hope
“Hope is the key to success”, yet another famous proverb. Indeed, the most important thing to keep going at the worst times is to be hopeful about everything. Here, success isn’t related to academics, but it’s all about survival. Also, the success is when you achieve your goals by conquering the demonic world outside with a firm belief and hope. I did it, and I am living with it.
Ignore Negative Vibes
Negativity and Positivity go hand-in-hand. Sometimes, the pessimism wins over the positivity, and at others, the optimism enjoys the victory. But, when you feel the negative vibes are trying to rule your head, the only thing that can save you is to ignore. I started avoiding the negative approaches and cutting the toxic people out from my list a while ago and I tell you it’s really soothing.
Spend Time With Your Favorites
My family is my favorite. Though I have many friends, still, the time I spend with my family is more worthwhile for me. The laughter, gossips, and secrets I share with them always are more welcoming than anything else. Therefore, I suggest you spend the maximum time with your loved ones and make wonderful memories.
Appreciate Yourself
It’s my personal favorite. I do it more often. Whenever I am depressed and having mood swings, I start watching my own pics and appreciate my makeup, or looks. Hehe… Why should I be ashamed? I love myself, so everyone does. Appreciate yourself, your work, your living, and see the change in you in no time.
Do Things You Want
Stop doing things that make others happy. You can’t give joy to them. Yet, you can make yourself happy by doing the things you love. We spend most of our lives doing things that are for others and forget our own happiness. Don’t do this, let’s take an oath today: from now on, whatever people think, we will do what we like not what others want.
Find Peace In Helping Others
How do you feel when you help someone in their miserable time? Of course, blessed, and chosen by ALLAH. I felt it several times and undeniably, no other thing can calm your mind and heart as deeply as helping others can. Keep supporting each other and enjoy peace.
Final Thoughts
Ending this article with a small quote by Heal With Words:
Nobody can heal you; until or unless you do.
So, start healing yourself and forget the rest.
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Happy Reading!
Good stuff
Here, success isn’t related to academics, but it’s all about survival.
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May ALLAH bless u… Such a calming read 😇
Very nice! Thoughtful reading
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Keep supporting:)
Thankyou ameen 😍
Thank you. Keep supporting and reading:)
Love your perception always
Thank you:)