Aggression & criticism are strongly relatable as they are very common in this era. I am starting with me. Since i am growing, the level of my aggression is crossing the limits which when i notice i feel shameful because my aggression closes my eyes and sometimes i forget that with whom i am talking and how.
It makes me feel sorry in my post aggression scenario which is useless then. Aggression, losing temperament or getting furious on even small things are high in ratio. Our young generation do not hold anything on them and has no patience as well. As our Beloved Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H.) used to tell us that anger is prohibited and forbidden. But we forget this every now and then.
Due to aggression, we lose many things like our repute, our values, our impression and our relations. Control in anger is very much needed nowadays.
One main thing that makes a human being aggressive is criticism. There are two kinds of criticism. Constructive criticism and destructive criticism.
But firstly we will talk about criticism. I have noticed about myself that whenever someone criticizes me, the first thing i feel in my heart is the offense. But lately when i ponder over that criticism deep down my heart then i feel it was right. It is our mind, our thought and our heart that how do we take criticism.
Criticism is just a criticism. Its our mind which decides this criticism as a constructive one or a destructive one. If we get to learn from that criticism and decide to avoid that mistakes due to which we have been criticized, then it would be constructive criticism. But if we take the criticism just like a taunt or fun making of us then that would become destructive criticism.
See how it works at the back-end of our minds. This is how we perceive them and this is how destructive criticism makes us aggressive towards people, things and forces us to use slang or inappropriate language or do anything that is unfair.
The ALMIGHTY ALLAH has given some of the controls in a human being's hand like control the thoughts (do not think evil, think positive), controls of the movements and gestures and also the control of a tongue and told us about how to live a life. Only we have to do is to use all of our organs and body parts in the right directions. Wrong use of anything will lead us to bad endings.
We should be beware of these things and should be capable of controlling our aggression and bearing with the criticism if we get some, so the life may become less tough.
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It makes me feel sorry in my post aggression scenario which is useless then. Aggression, losing temperament or getting furious on even small things are high in ratio. Our young generation do not hold anything on them and has no patience as well. As our Beloved Holy Prophet (P.B.U.H.) used to tell us that anger is prohibited and forbidden. But we forget this every now and then.
Due to aggression, we lose many things like our repute, our values, our impression and our relations. Control in anger is very much needed nowadays.
One main thing that makes a human being aggressive is criticism. There are two kinds of criticism. Constructive criticism and destructive criticism.
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See how it works at the back-end of our minds. This is how we perceive them and this is how destructive criticism makes us aggressive towards people, things and forces us to use slang or inappropriate language or do anything that is unfair.
The ALMIGHTY ALLAH has given some of the controls in a human being's hand like control the thoughts (do not think evil, think positive), controls of the movements and gestures and also the control of a tongue and told us about how to live a life. Only we have to do is to use all of our organs and body parts in the right directions. Wrong use of anything will lead us to bad endings.
We should be beware of these things and should be capable of controlling our aggression and bearing with the criticism if we get some, so the life may become less tough.
Happy reading!
100% right
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