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Resilience, Sufferings, and Struggles are, undeniably, closely relatable to each other, and when you find all these things in a woman, then you can easily say them, her power.
For this, let's get a wing to a story of a girl (with which any other gal can relate as well).
A Story
There was a girl who knew what suffering is, since her childhood. That's why she studied hard and struggled, so she wouldn't have to see anything disturbing in the future again.
However, she didn't go to any well-known school. Still, she never made this thing her weakness. Despite, she just focused on her dreams. Like:
- A dream to get good marks.
- A dream to gain knowledge and degree.
- A dream to never let her family down.
- A dream to become everyone's favorite.
- A dream to make her parents proud.
- A dream to touch the sky of success.
- A dream to earn and help others.
- A dream to achieve everything that makes life perfect.
- A dream to travel around the world.
- A dream to work hard, so she can pursue her other dreams.
- A dream to make her name.
- A dream to never be blamed.
- A dream to never disappoint her parents.
- A dream of keep dreaming!!!
While she was dreaming, she was feeling pain, experiencing heartbreaks, and realizing that everything is not "that" easy.
But, sometimes, we all forget that ALMIGHTY ALLAH is there, who sees us, listens to us, and blesses us with the best group of people called "Family" who are there to support even when we are facing odds.
Indeed, the family is everything, your parents, and siblings with whom you spend a bad time with the love in heart and peace in mind.
So, she was blessed with the lovely lot who helped them in understanding the reality of time...and sooner or later, she realized that time is a "game-changer," which would bring happiness, and will never stay the same.
Thus, one day, she held the rope of hope and positivity firmly, girded up her loins, and started to struggle to overcome the sufferings.
She knew the only escape to those depriving sufferings is hidden in the struggle and in becoming resilient.
Well, she did it and got her first achievement, a degree. Then, she stepped into a different thing (an exact opposite to what she wanted).
She knew the only escape to those depriving sufferings is hidden in the struggle and in becoming resilient.
Well, she did it and got her first achievement, a degree. Then, she stepped into a different thing (an exact opposite to what she wanted).
She got married, which was a whole new thing for her.
There again, she struggled not to get failed, to be called a good human being, to make her parents proud, and to live a happy life ever after.
Yet, the heartaches were more than her struggles; she tried again and again, but all in vain. During that time, she didn't know that she has to lose herself and sacrifice her dreams.
While going through diverse circumstances, the girl (with no experience and skills) applied for different jobs and got one, irrespective of her degree, to learn skills.
She kept struggling, so she can earn good worth. But, life had a lot more to teach and test her.
Along with this, she attained a new level of patience, and connection to ALLAH just on the basis of her resilience.
And... One day, after years of struggle, sacrifices, and sufferings, she got all that respect, blissings, peace, and joy, she wanted in her life.
But, till then, a few things got surety in her mind that Sufferings would never end, Sacrifices will still be there, and she would always need to Struggle for dreams.
Though in the meantime, one thought rooted in her mind that resilience is the only key to fight against these SSS factors.
Things That Helped Her
The personality traits that helped the girl to conquer sufferings (and can help you, too), are:
- She kept her faith and hope intact.
- She stuck with her family.
- Her mind was clear, and her intentions were strong.
- She never stopped fighting.
- Her smile was still there.
- She never gave up on her dreams.
- Energy and confidence became part of her personality.
- That girl didn't allow negativity to rule her.
- She accepted her flaws and improved her skills.
- To be consistent became her virtue.
- She lived with no more expectations and demands.
- A girl found strength in being unique.
- Resilience helped her standing back after every fall.
- Her observations about things, people, and situations made her capable of being creative.
- With this, a girl chose to stay motivated and dedicated so that she can overcome her fears and other odds.
- Then, she decided to public her thoughts, experiences, observations.
Undoubtedly, the journey to be resilient is all that every girl needs and the traits mentioned above really do wonders in any girl's life.
My Verdict
Being a girl, I felt it, and I wrote it. I hope that all the women, either they are aged, or they are young, would feel connected to it. I strongly believe that if a girl aims to bring a positive change, then she can, and she does.
So, be a nice woman and appreciate yourself.
Happy Reading!
I think every girl in pakistan goes through this journey…
To be honest, I don't know how this girl manage to do such a good job in every single phase of her life.
I know a girl like her and I am proud of her. ❤
Very well written!
Keep writing and motivating us. 👍🏻
Good maa sha Allah
Truthfulness is your strength
Ma sha Allah. Every women somehow face these sacrifices… Every girl or women should Firmly stick to her aims dreams and rules..
exactly
Thanks, keep reading 🙂
ALHAMDULILLAH, keep reading
yes, that's what all matters
Thank you for writing my heart ❤️
Keep writing and blessed be with every happiness of every world 💕
I got an emotional attachment to this article. Worth reading 😍
thankyou 💖
I appreciate that🤗