We always like people who have a good sense of humor but Are they mature enough to take their life seriously when it is needed? Rarely Yes or Barely No.
Pros...
Sense of Humor is an exceptional quality of any human being and a person who owns it can make a very messy situation into a lighter one. A good sense of Humor is also a blessing in either way as at the most difficult times of life, it calms down the person. Sense of Humor is actually bringing some funny jokes out of the different things.
Maturity is a quality in which a person needs to observe things and try to get solutions out of difficult situations in a sensible way. A mature person does analyze things thoroughly and has know-how about different outcomes.
Maturity is not related to the number of experiences or age, it is merely about types of experiences. A mature person is more sensitive towards everything happening around.
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Cons...
Sense of Humor and Maturity collides in circumstances where more maturity requires than a sense of humor. But the person who thinks that his sense of humor can handle the situation in a more good way will not feel the need for Maturity and even doesn't think about the solutions in a fine way.
Sometimes it makes the conditions worst when you are showing off your sense of humor at times when it is "MOSTLY NOT NEEDED".
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A person with a good sense of humor thinks that his sense of humor is the most regarding the quality of himself and he thinks that he is fun-loving and the king of hearts for everyone. But it doesn't remain the same when it exceeds the limits. Overuse of Sense of Humor may also tell about what is going on in your mind and what do you perceive about different things.
A mature person who thinks that he can handle the situation in a more perfect way counts every one else less intelligent, less mature and less worthy. His Ego occupies his mind all over and with this ego and superiority complex sometimes makes him do wrong decisions of life. A maturity is where there is sensitivity but because of this sensitivity, sometimes, we take people and their behaviors wrong.
A mixture...
This is a Maturity when you can sense that when your sense of humor is required or when not. A person who does acquire both the qualities of sense of humor and maturity makes a perfect mixture and is serious about various things and funny about non-serious things. That makes a perfect match.
People admire such personalities who have both the qualities and sometimes rely on them in different phases of their lives. What we need is to OBSERVE OURSELVES first and encounter our own personalities, if we find the odd match then try to make it a better one.
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