As a title says it all. May be i am one of those who pass judgements (or give advices) on anyone without giving it a second thought that we are speaking un-required and giving advices back and forth. Its common now to pass JUDGEMENT or you can say it just a ADVICE someone to keep yourself on safer side. But still it doesn't seems good when you pass judgemental comments on anyone about whom you even don't know. This is a massacre of our nation as we are growing into the age of Educated Illiterates.
We do learn behaviors, attitudes and also use of our basic five senses but when we need to implement our learnings, they just blown off all of a sudden.
There is a slight line of difference in between judgemental comments and advices. Judgemental comments are always considered as a negative perspective about anyone or anything and giving advice is a far much different thing, a positive approach. How??? Let's discuss!!!
Being judgemental or passing judgemental comments is to be like a blunt, outspoken, showing unethical behavior which knows no limits of using any kind of language (uses mostly slang language) and always taunting. A person who just does that gives his/her very bad impact though.
Giving advice is a different thing. Its starts with a reluctance of an adviser that should he/she speak in the affair or not then politeness in his/her accent (way of talk) and then the use of very simple, easy and (you can say cute little words) to advice someone about anything keeping this in mind that the advice shouldn't hurt the person to whom advice is given. This is all about it.But now the advices that are given and comments that are passed are so mixed up. We have plenty of platforms where we just have to write down what we think about anything or anyone no matter how it will be taken on the opposite side. After passing a harsh judgement on anyone, we try to count that rude comment as a advice.
Life is not just about to go check out the social media all the day, search out for gossips or controversies and then passing out comments that are most of the time judgemental and not advisable. Life is more than that. I urge you to interfere in others life as much as you like and afford others to involve in your matters.
Happy Reading!
We do learn behaviors, attitudes and also use of our basic five senses but when we need to implement our learnings, they just blown off all of a sudden.
There is a slight line of difference in between judgemental comments and advices. Judgemental comments are always considered as a negative perspective about anyone or anything and giving advice is a far much different thing, a positive approach. How??? Let's discuss!!!
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Life is not just about to go check out the social media all the day, search out for gossips or controversies and then passing out comments that are most of the time judgemental and not advisable. Life is more than that. I urge you to interfere in others life as much as you like and afford others to involve in your matters.
Happy Reading!