We always talk about equal rights, respect, and care that have become rare in the society. In this era, where everyone is obsessed either with his/her looks, academics, religious rituals or whatever. It is really hard to find respect and care. People have become more sensitive towards themselves and ignore other rights. In the meanwhile, the people who are the extreme supporters of equality in everything are the real victims of it as well.

Nowadays, equal rights are defined under circumstances related to education, jobs, and gender. I don't think its wrong if both the genders fulfill their all responsibilities equally then there is no problem in pursuing their dreams.

But in addition to this, one thing that is also very important is maintaining balance in your professional and personal life as well as in your relationships. The most neglected thing is the "Balance in all your relationships". We put less care towards this factor in our lives that everything goes hand in hand, the same is the case with relationships. If you are keeping everything in its own circle then everything goes perfect otherwise it gets mixed up and creates problems.

I think when we used to neglect our responsibilities towards one relationship and try to be focused 100% towards the other always create a mess in our lives. We never think that sometimes we are doing injustice to a person by neglecting his/her rights and hurting his/her feelings.

I have seen people who live their lives while being biased towards one relationship and with no thought in their minds that they are becoming a reason for someone's tears. This is where dis-balance occurs in our lives.

Everyone gets a different place in your heart, mind, and life. We have to accept that and this is a rule of life. It becomes necessary to give attention to a person who requires and needs it at times according to the situations and scenarios. It doesn't mean to ignore other relationships while being focused on one. It's time-to-time priorities. This is up to us to whom we have to be more careful and more attentive according to the different circumstances in different phases and periods of life. Everyone who is the part of your life no matter what way is important. Every single relationship does matter and we can't ignore the fact.

First of all, it destroys relationships totally. When we are dis-balancing our relationships, we do not ponder over the fact that we are actually testing another person's patience. It takes away everything with it either it is respect, care or love and most importantly the responsibility of fulfilling the rights of the concerned person who has been neglecting for all his/her life. People who are biased towards a person and ignores the other always live an unhappy and agitated life. There is always an emptiness in their hearts. Because a person who hurts others can not live a happy life himself (nature's law).

We are blessed that we have relationships, we have people around us who care for us and sincere with us. It becomes a great loss sometimes when a "precious person" leaves us as we were already neglecting him/her to make another person happy and with the loss of that person, We lose ourselves as well.

Don't lose them, Give everything in your life equal importance. Love and respect every relationship.